
This weekend, it was very clear how much Ron Holmer was loved by his family. The family held a memorial service on Saturday where I learned more about my Uncle Ron than I’d previously known. In his youth, he was the butcher at my grandparents’ grocery store, he spent some time in seminary, and he met his wife, Aunt Pam, through the personal ads! (Just a few "fun facts" I learned) My sisters and a few cousins gave him the title of “baby whisperer” as he had the amazing ability to quickly calm a fussy child. We have many pictures and memories of babies sound asleep on Uncle Ron’s lap. I also heard people remembering him with adjectives such as generous, kind, loving, quiet, intelligent, supportive, witty and as a person who led by example.
During his memorial service, his daughter, Chris, bestowed her hope that after the service we would “love each other a little more today than we did yesterday”. I didn’t think it was possible, but I did leave Philadelphia this weekend with more love than I took there and an enormous amount of pride in my family. I will miss my Uncle Ron greatly, but I’m so thankful for the time we had with him, the things we learned from him, and the wonderful family that he has left behind.